Wedding cake – The Ocelots' Den

Let Them Eat Cake! Old and New Traditions

By Julia on 30 June, 2021

I am enjoying these weekly features SO much.

When I started researching the tradition of exchanging cake after it is cut, I thought it would be a fun little fluffy piece of history.

The more I read about it, the more emotion I began to feel. I mention this mostly to express that my stance is obviously skewed towards skipping the cake smash. It goes against my personal values. The fear, the uncertainty, the lack of trust that can be displayed (if you express your desire and then it isn’t honored). Revenge, power, pride, force, and the potential for resentment.

This is clearly my stance. I do believe cake smashes can be done lovingly and playfully. But it has to be done with respect. If one of you doesn’t want to do it, this isn’t something to compromise on, don’t do it.

If you are wild, silly, playful, and aren’t worried about messing up your makeup (or your partner’s makeup) or getting a cake with a filling tuning your clothes, then HAVE a blast! Squish that cake in their face!

If you are like me, you will leave the cake smashes to the adorable babies. If you aren’t, that’s great, just make sure to be honoring the spirit of your partner. Don’t have your laugh at the expense of your partner, especially so publically on your beautiful day.

In all of the cake topics I’ve researched and planned to highlight, this is what I feel is the most controversial. I am incredibly supportive of couples following their bliss and seeking their joy, but I couldn’t write this up in an unbiased way.

You are spending money on makeup, dresses, tuxes/ suits, and the delicious cake. Enjoy the cake! Avoid the mess of your makeup, staining clothes, and savor those sweet bites with your honey.

Recommendations

Communication is the most important thing. (And my number ONE marriage tip). Talk it through. Share openly.

Talk about each of your visions about the cake cutting. It may feel silly, but this is your life partner. It isn’t silly. Talk through how you plan to cut the cake. (Ask your baker about recommendations for cutting that first slice. There may be structure inside of the cake that you need to be aware of). Then talk about how you plan to feed each other the cake (or if you want to particiapte in that tradition). Will you use a fork, will you use your fingers, will you feed one at a time, will you feed at the same time?

I’m a planner by nature. So my suggestions above may seem like overkill. Maybe you like things more loosey goosey and that’s great too.

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Stack ’em Up: Elevate Your Celebration with Tiered Cakes

By Julia on 23 June, 2021

I’m over the moon with excitement for today’s featured wedding question. “What is the difference between tiers and layers?” To put it simply a cake is made of layers. Tiers are the individual cakes stacked!

I relish ANY opportunity to make a tiered cake. I have even made them for myself for my birthday JUST BECAUSE I CAN! 😹

Stay tuned on my IG. Eventually, I will find and show some photos of my first ever tiered cakes. Let’s just say, I’ve come a long, LONG way.

The MOST important aspect of stacking a tiered cake is the structure in the cake. Without a structure, the decadent and often heavy cake will sink and tilt and RUIN the visual experience of your cake. Looking at the bright side, the cake will still taste great!

Julia’s Baking Journey Detour

This was the foundation of my baking story. All I wanted was a cake that tasted GOOD. In my experience, prior to starting my cake decorating journey, all those fussy cakes with buttercream flowers, carved shapes, or fondant coverings were not filled with delicious cake. I felt like they were a waste of calories. 🙀 I would have rather eaten boxed cakes. (Another controversial opinion. I like the taste of MANY box cakes). I still feel this way about a lot of cakes (I’m looking at you, generic grocery store cake).

Back to the Structure of Tiered Cakes

Structure is usually made out of wooden dowels, smoothie straws or even metal rods and cake boards (made of cardboard, acrylic, plastic, or metal). I use smoothie straws and cardboard most often. The smoothie straws are cost effective, but I’m actively seeking other alternatives before I resupply. The straws (rods or dowels) create a base for the cake boards to rest without squishing the cake below.

I always use at least 3 straws in each tier. Think of it like a table. A table with two legs cannot stand on its own. If you tilt or bump it may shift or fall. I often use 4 for the size cakes I bake. (The largest base I make is 12″). I can bake up to 14″ cakes, but I haven’t had any requests thus far.

Final Thoughts

The fun of tiered cakes is they have limitless options. You can mix and match the number of layers and shapes. I am waiting on pins and needles to make a cake with varied cake layers. Hoping I’ll find an excuse to do one this year! (I’d do it for my birthday this year, but I am going to work on perfecting Macaron making!!!!)

Do you have any additional Cake Tier Questions? Please share them with me.

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Naked Cakes: Brazen, Beautiful, or Boring?

By Julia on 16 June, 2021

At this point in my wedding cake series, I’m sure it isn’t a surprise that given the choice I choose cake over frosting. IMHO, naked cakes are the perfect balance between frosting and cake. However, it may surprise you that I will always veer towards suggesting a Fully Frosted or Nearly Nude cake. And not just because I enjoy their alliterative names.

While I adore the look of a naked cake, and the balance is my favorite, a truly naked cake is more challenging to make. I know this may seem unrealistic. There is less icing—fewer materials. There aren’t countless swipes to make the icing smooth. On the other hand, the layers need to be baked to perfection to get crisp lines. The cake crumb needs to be intact for an even-ish color. That cute crumb that comes through can literally tear the cake if the icing isn’t the perfect consistency.

I suppose you could say, I have a love/hate relationship with naked cakes. I’ve had TWO naked cakes topple over. It was HEARTBREAKING! (Luckily they were cakes for experimenting… and many lessons were learned to prevent this from happening again). A nice chilled outer coating of frosting is firm enough that I don’t worry about the cake slipping or sliding or turning into a leaning tower.

The final concern I have for naked cakes is they can dry out. The frosting on a cake insulates the cake and seals the moisture into the cake. Most bridal cakes are made days ahead of the wedding. Naked cakes have more opportunities for the cake to be out and exposed. Don’t worry though, if you have your heart set on a naked cake, there are ways to compensate and mitigate the risk of having a dry cake.

A simple syrup brushed between the layers can infuse more flavor (if it is an infused syrup) but it can add that moisture you may have lost. Additionally, hopefully, your baker (like me) can plan to bake your cake closer to your event. Currently, I only bake ONE wedding cake a week. I plan ahead of time and for naked cakes especially to bake the day before the wedding.

Nearly Nude

A Nearly Nude cake has the lightest layer of frosting. It still looks very much like a naked cake, yet is more forgiving. It seals in more of that coveted moisture. It is easy to handle (which is important for tiered cakes). This cake is the Goldilocks of cakes. 😸 This cake style is also commonly called Nearly Naked and Semi-Naked.

At the Den

If you choose to work with me, I am happy to answer any additional questions about these cakes. My bias is purely for what I like to eat & what is easiest for me to make. I am over-the-moon excited to make ANY cake. I provide information, answer questions, and then create YOUR dream cake!!! Whether it is for a wedding (LOVE), Birthday (LOVE), Celebrations (LOVE), Just Because (LOVE). I feel immense joy bringing cake dreams to life and infusing my love into these creations.

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Layering in the Flavor

By Julia on 2 June, 2021

It’s time to dispel some confusion. Layers versus Tiers. One of the things I love the most in creating treats for my clients is truly customizing their visions.

What is a Cake Layer?

Let’s get down to basics. The Cake layer is basically the bread of making a cake. If we are thinking of sandwiches as an analogy for cake making. A sheet cake is an open face sandwich. (One layer of cake/ bread + /frosting/toppings. A Layer Cake is a traditional Sandwich with at least 2 pieces of bread + any number of toppings.

All of my cakes are 2-inch layers of cake. Whether they are 1,2,3, or 4 layers of cake. This creates a nice uniform size. Cakes can have thicker or thinner layers of cake, but I use this standard measurement so each cake is baked the same and I can achieve consistent results.

Between each layer of cake there is at a minimum a layer of frosting. It can be the same frosting as on the outside of the cake, a different color of the same frosting, or a different flavor all together.

Additionally, fillings can be added. Fruit, nuts, candy, caramel, chocolate etc. I pipe a dam of icing around the edge (to seal in the topping) and then fill the inside with extra delicious flavors.

Tiers are when you have smaller cakes stacked on top of larger cakes. We’ll get into tiers more in future posts.

The Process of Ordering a Custom Cake

Here are some of the first questions I will ask.

What is the event? (birthday, Wedding, Celebration, Anniversary)
How many people are you anticipating at your event? (So I can guide the sizing)
What flavors would you like to include? (Cake, Frosting, Filling, Toppers)
Are there any dietary concerns?

Once I have those more basic questions, I can hone in and figure how best to scale the cake for the size of the event.

Size is often the biggest question. Cakes of various different shapes can feed the same number of people.

Sheet Cakes are typically one layer
My standard Cakes have two layers
Tall Cakes have 3-4 layers (in my bakery)

So let’s say you have 20 guests at your party. Here are some examples of cake suggestions I would offer.

Wedding (Smaller Slices are served at weddings)
- A 2 Tier Cake with a 6-inch layer and a 4-inch layer (serves 20)
- A three-layer 6-inch cake (serves 21)
Other Celebrations
- a 10-inch two-layer Cake (serves 21)
- an 8-inch three-layer Cake (serves 21)
- a 2 tier cake with a 6-inch layer and an 8-inch layer (serves 22)

The more people the more options available. Especially with tiered cakes. You Can mix and match the height of the layers for more drama or an eclectic vibe.

Once the basic choices are selected. I can create a customized quote for any additional design elements (cake toppers, fresh fruit, sugar flowers, etc.) I am also happy to sketch up some scaled drawings if you need some help visualizing different cake sizes.

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Ice, Ice Baby!

By Julia on 12 May, 2021

There are two main ways to decorate a cake. Frosting, sometimes called icing or Fondant. (There are other options as well. A ganache is lovely, though I think it is akin to a frosting).

What is fondant?

Those perfectly smooth cakes you see are probably covered in Fondant. Try as we may that perfect finish is hard to replicate any other way.

Fondant is typically rolled into thin sheets and draped over the cake’s surface. Almost like an edible playdough. It can be formed, sculpted, embossed, and it is very versatile. The downside of fondant is, many aren’t fond of the flavor. There is also a learning curve to using it.

Icing is a Thing of the Past

The term icing is sometimes used interchangeably with frosting. You know those beautifully decorated cookies that are incredibly soothing to watch people make? They have that crunchy icing? (Maybe it’s just me that watches cookie videos like they are ASMR) Those cookies are made with Royal Icing. There was a time, that wedding cakes were baked with this! At that time wedding cakes were often fruit cakes.

Nowadays, most wedding cakes are frosted instead of iced. There are many different frostings used for cakes nowadays. Most often, they are Buttercreams! (Butter + Confectioners Sugar + Cream + Flavor = American Buttercream)

Fondant or Frosting?

I’m not particularly fond of fondant, or working with fondant. (It’s extra steps. and added cost, and time). Fondant is REALLY useful for hotter weather! Buttercream can melt in the summer heat. Weather and temperature are something to consider in addition to the flavor. A cake covered in fondant will still having frosting (or ganache) and the option for fillings, but protects the cake from melting.

White, Off-White, or Beige?

Do you want a TRUE white cake? Buttercream may not be your best choice. Variations can be made with shortening and butter flavor, but since butter is yellow, the icing will be a bit off-white. Additionally, the type of flavorings will also impact the color. My preference is to use Mexican Vanilla extract, this, of course, is brown, and subtly tints the icing. To prevent this, you can get clear vanilla extract, but you are sacrificing a little bit of flavor. I have both types on hand at all times, plus vanilla beans (which add a light speckle and LOTS of flavor). For all my cakes I default to Mexican Vanilla with the exception of Wedding Cakes. I make sure to ask my couples about their preferences.

Still Have Questions?

If you still have more questions, please email me! I’ll be happy to walk you through the various options!

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Baking the Flavor of Love

By Julia on 5 May, 2021

Today is all about cake flavors! Your wedding cake should be a reflection of the flavors that bring YOU and your Soon-to-Be-Spouse joy!!

White cake is traditional, classic, and timeless. It’s extremely versatile. (I highly recommend White Velvet if this is your jam). Often when people think about this classic wedding cake flavor, it is a white vanilla cake and will have a little bit of almond extract as well.

However, maybe you aren’t a vanilla, classic, or traditional cake lover… If this is you, and you are hesitating… stop hesitating. Get that chocolate cake*! Maybe you or your person LOVES sprinkles and you want a sprinkle surprise when the cake is cut! (The sprinkles can even be in your wedding colors!!!)

Have your wedding YOUR way!

I adore tradition and classics, but choose the cake YOU want! You can also have the classic exterior, with surprise flavors! (Coconut buttercream, with a Lime Citrus cake) (Peppermint Buttercream with a Chocolate Cake). Or, Go wild and infuse your cake with color inside and out! (My wedding cupcakes were zebra striped marble!)

Struggling to choose a flavor? Do a tasting! Or ask for recommendations. Create a variation on a theme. Having a tropical honeymoon, pull in those flavors into your cake!

B.Y.O.C. (Build Your Own Cake (or Cupcakes))

One of my favorite things to do is craft custom cake flavors and combinations. One of my favorite Wedding Cakes was for a Halloween Wedding. The couple discussed flavors they like (Citrus, Vanilla, Raspberry, etc.) but they didn’t seem to fit the season (their thoughts).

So, when I did their cake tasting, I made my sea salt caramel. Being a Mid-Western girl, when I think Autumn. I think Caramel Apples. This was their overwhelming winner. White Velvet Cake, Salted Caramel Buttercream, and Sea Salt Caramel Filling and Drip.

My husband and I met in Germany. So we had a German Chocolate Cake**, additionally, I love chocolate cake, and German Chocolate Cake was my Great Grams’ favorite cake. **German Chocolate Cake isn’t German. It is named after the brand of chocolate (German’s Chocolate). My husband isn’t a cake lover, so he didn’t really care about the cake flavor. (He chose the Groom’s Cake alternative). I also baked cupcakes to accompany the cake.

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Any Way You Slice It: Fascinating Cake Cutting Traditions

By Julia on 28 April, 2021

The cake is one of the most iconic parts of the wedding reception. The newly weds make their first entrance as a married couple. The first dance, dancing with parents, bouquet toss, garter toss, and cake cutting are some of the most key elements of the modern wedding reception.

When a couple cuts their wedding cake, it is a symbol of the first thing they do as a married couple. In my opinion, this alleviates a lot of the pressure. (What’s the first thing you did as a couple?) There’s no awkward pause. You just know that it’s cutting the cake.

How to cut the cake

A general theme I fully believe in, is do whatever feels right between you and your partner. Everything doesn’t have to be the conventional, traditional, or historical approach. However, sometimes this knowledge can make things sweeter.

It is a common practice for the groom to place his hand over the bride’s when cutting the cake. This symbolizes his promise to support her and her promise to take care of him and their family.

Where to cut the cake

Couples are often encouraged to cut from the bottom tier of the cake. This is to symbolize the longevity and continuity in their marriage. (I see many couples cut the top tier. It is often simpler, and a more logical choice for serving.

Cake Cutting No Nos!

Caution, DON’T cut your top tier if you are planning on saving it for your first anniversary. This isn’t as common of a practice, but, don’t cut the cake you intend on saving.

Don’t try to slice through the entire cake!!! I cannot repeat this enough. There are cake boards and possibly other structures within the cake so it doesn’t collapse. (You would be surprised how heavy most cakes are). As you are cutting, if you feel resistance, stop. If this happens just as you begin to slice, you may have inadvertently attempted to slice where there is a dowel supporting the tier above.

Anyway you slice it!

The couple will cut a slice of the cake. (Posing for photos along the way). This is where most modern cake cutting ends (for the couple). They feed each other some cake, and often a caterer or a loving family member will come to slice the remainder of the cake.

Some older traditions include the couple cutting and serving the cake to their guests, but this has mostly gone out of fashion as weddings have many more guests.

When to cut the cake

You can schedule it whenever you think is best. My suggestion is first thing. Then it can continue to be sliced while your guests are having their meal. (And it truly is your first activity as a married couple).

This also frees up guests to leave when they are ready. People generally stay through the cake cutting, but your grandparents may be accustomed to earlier bed times. Additionally, it means, once your band (or DJ) starts playing, the party portion of the evening doesn’t have to stop to cut the cake. (Win! Win!)

Serving Size Slices

Paralysis often sets in when it comes to cutting the cake into equal slices. Larger cakes (especially over 6″ diameter) can be cut into squares instead of slicing the cake like a pie. A slice of wedding cake is 1W” x 2D” x 4H” (Width, Depth, Height).

If you would like a cake cutting guide, I am happy to supply options along with your cake order!